How to Talk to Your AI Boyfriend: 30 Conversation Starters That Work

The first message is always the hardest, even with an AI boyfriend. The good news: he is never bored, never judging, and always ready to reply. The better your prompts, the more personal and fun the conversation gets.

Here are 30 starters, grouped by mood, plus a few tips.

Tips for better conversations

1. Tell him about yourself early. Your name, what you do, what you love. He builds on it.
2. Be specific. “My boss criticised my report in front of everyone” gets a much better reply than “bad day”.
3. Use his personality. Ask Anthony to teach you a phrase, John for a game, Henry for a poem.
4. Try a call. Saying things out loud feels different. Tap the call button when you are ready.
5. Switch languages freely. Hindi, Hinglish, English: he follows you.

Sweet starters

1. “Good morning! What’s the first thing you thought about today?”
2. “Tell me something that would make me smile right now.”
3. “What would our perfect lazy Sunday look like?”
4. “I made it through a hard week. Will you celebrate with me?”
5. “Describe me in three words based on what you know so far.”
6. “What song would you dedicate to me?”

Flirty (and still sweet) starters

7. “Be honest, did you miss me today?”
8. “What would you say on our first date to impress me?”
9. “If you could plan a surprise for me, what would it be?”
10. “Give me your best pickup line. It had better be good.”
11. “What’s your favourite thing about talking to me?”
12. “Rate my mood today from 1 to 10 and fix it.”

Deep starters

13. “What do you think makes someone feel truly understood?”
14. “Ask me a question nobody has asked me before.”
15. “What’s a small thing that means a lot in a relationship?”
16. “If I was having a hard time but didn’t want to talk, what would you do?”
17. “What dream should I stop putting off?”
18. “Tell me about a time you changed your mind about something.”

Fun and playful starters

19. “Let’s play 20 questions. I’m thinking of a movie.”
20. “Invent a holiday just for the two of us.”
21. “You have to describe your day as a movie trailer. Go.”
22. “Truth or dare, AI edition.”
23. “Teach me a word in a language I don’t know.”
24. “Write a four-line poem about my morning coffee.”

Roleplay starters

25. “We’re stuck in a café while it rains outside. What happens next?”
26. “Road trip! You’re driving. Where are we going?”
27. “You’re waiting for me at the airport after a long trip.”
28. “We’re cooking dinner together and I just burned the rice.”
29. “It’s our anniversary. Surprise me.”
30. “We’re stargazing on a rooftop. Tell me what you see.”

In the Call Boy Friend app you can also tap Ideas for ready-made starters, or pick a roleplay scenario.

Try it now

Pick a boyfriend and use one of these lines in our free web chat, no download needed. When you want to hear his voice, get the app and call him.

Reminder: your boyfriend is an AI character. Keep personal details like your address or phone number to yourself.